hi all, I'm 46 years old and 23 weeks pregnant with my first child. My consultant has recommended I have elective cs at 38 weeks as 'there may be complications with labour due to my age'. I'm a fit healthy person, slim and a non-smoker with no health issues and no issues with my pregnancy. I really don't want a cs as want to be totally hands-on with my baby from the moment they are born, obviously the surgery and recovery would limit what I could do physically and practically and hold me back so to speak in the first 6 weeks or so (assuming it's only a 6 week recovery period and not longer!) I want to breast feed and don't want anything to impact on my ability to do so. Has anyone around my age experienced a normal vb or had difficulties with labour due to their age? Also, what have been your experiences with planned cs ? Obviously I realise that if I do encounter problems with labour I could end up needing an emergency cs which would be far more traumatic than a planned one. I've never had any kind of surgery before and would obviously prefer to keep it that way. My hubby is off work for 4 weeks once baby is born so he'll be there to help with practical/heavy stuff but even so I'd rather not be hindered in what I can do. Would appreciate comments from Mams of my age :-) thank you.
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