Looking for some honest experiences from Mums who have already done it re: childbirth.
I've planned to try and have a water birth with gas and air. Largely because I'm terrified of an instrumental delivery and have read that an epidural could increase those chances. In addition friends and family have said Pethadrine made them feel sick and totally out of it. And when I read about the various other options the side effects seemed off putting. In short there was no silver bullet ... Every option seems to have a major downside.
Everyone I know who has given birth recently in RL has told me "take all the drugs". There have been some traumatic births which I'm trying not to dwell on but on the whole, of those I know recently all have involved a lot of intervention and not been how the mum has planned.
I appreciate they're only trying to help and every birth is different but it's made me really wonder if a natural birth is likely. I don't have an especially high pain threshold and I don't want to be traumatised ... Whatever gets baby here safely and leaves me well enough to get on with the task at hand straight after is the best option.
It feels like there's a strong sense of pushing natural birth from health care professionals which I am taking on board (thus me aiming for this). But when people in RL / random people in the hair dressers / seemingly everyone I speak to is telling me to take the drugs ... I'm wondering if I'm being naive.
I'm down to be midwife led, but sort of think if I'll end up having an epidural it may be better to plan for that and do it sooner. So as not to increase risk of instrumental delivery etc. That would mean no pool etc which I really would prefer. It's all very confusing and hard to get info on.
If you don't mind sharing, I'd love to hear about your choices in this respect. And experience of the various pain relief options.
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Pain Relief In Labour
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meltingmarshmallows · 27/08/2017 23:27
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