I am so fed up of everyone telling me their negative stories and how much it's going to hurt blah blah blah. One colleague at work today really wound me up I really wanted to tell her to fuck off but unfortunately I couldn't really... it's because I mentioned I'm hoping to just have gas and air and waterbirth to which she laughed in my face. And then everytime she passed me she whispered "you will end up with all the drugs", "bet you end up with an epidural" etc. I don't want to hear this. Plenty of people do this without all the pain relief going every day, it's not that unusual!
I'm doing hypnobirthing and really hoping to stay positive. Obviously I'm not delusional and I know it's not going to be a walk in the park and pain free but I don't want to hear it's going to be agony etc.
Just to clarify, I have no problem with people using whatever they need to get through it and if I am struggling and feel I need them then I'm not going to refuse them, I would just rather try my planned water birth first.
So, anyone want to tell me some positive stories to balance it out?
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PositivePlans2017 · 18/02/2017 19:02
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