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Do you have to wait until after the 6 week check for some red hot lovin???

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LadyTophamHatt Sun 25-Feb-07 14:46:53

I've never really known the answer to this so thought I ask.

lockets Sun 25-Feb-07 14:49:59

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FluffyMummy123 Sun 25-Feb-07 14:50:11

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RubyRioja Sun 25-Feb-07 14:50:12

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Swizzler Sun 25-Feb-07 14:51:23

Think it was about 4 weeks for us - depends on what you feel comfortable with I s'pose.

FluffyMummy123 Sun 25-Feb-07 14:52:01

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MerlinsBeard Sun 25-Feb-07 14:52:40

i was told to try before the 6 week check.

FluffyMummy123 Sun 25-Feb-07 14:53:24

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FluffyMummy123 Sun 25-Feb-07 14:53:52

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lockets Sun 25-Feb-07 14:55:23

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Greensleeves Sun 25-Feb-07 14:56:27

Jesus Mahosefah, are you serious? Red hot lovin'? How about red soggy sheets?

Even if I had been completely barking and pain-addicted, I don't think dh would have relished the prospect of making sweet lurve to a pile of partially-sewn-together chopped raw steak

FluffyMummy123 Sun 25-Feb-07 14:56:40

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fuzzywuzzy Sun 25-Feb-07 14:56:46

I'm pretty much of the cod camp.....although was told that we could have sex once the post partum flow stopped.
Then the M/w went on to ask me what I was thinking about contraception wise. I told her celibacy and utterly meant it....seriously I did (not too sure how dd2 happened a mere 19 months later)

FluffyMummy123 Sun 25-Feb-07 14:57:22

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FluffyMummy123 Sun 25-Feb-07 14:57:53

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NineUnlikelyTales Sun 25-Feb-07 14:59:48

DS was born 6 months ago and I'd still rather set fire to my fanjo than use it for any rude purpose.

LadyTophamHatt Sun 25-Feb-07 15:02:42

LOLOL I knew the "red hot lovin" bit would have you all recoiling in horror.

We've never waited until after the 6 wk check BTW...I just wondered if there was a definate answer to this.

LadyTophamHatt Sun 25-Feb-07 15:03:54

bleeding stopped yonks ago too....

littlemissbossy Sun 25-Feb-07 15:13:14

LTH, my midwife recommended sex before the 6 week check... helped to make sure everything was in working order

zippitippitoes Sun 25-Feb-07 15:25:33

god yes the thread title is nastee

nappyaddict Sun 25-Feb-07 15:41:01

i waited 2 weeks i think... as soon as the bleeding stopped!

DizzyBint Sun 25-Feb-07 15:46:13

fwiw i think the official line is take it slowly, lots of lube, and fine as long as you are both ready for it. i for one was certainly in no mood what so ever until maybe a month ago...dd is now 9 months old.

DizzyBint Sun 25-Feb-07 15:47:19 my 6 week check there was no check of me anyway...just checked dd and sent us on our way. no checks of my fanjo from as soon as dd was all

SherlockLGJ Sun 25-Feb-07 15:53:01


I used to wake up in the morning and calculate how much I had, had.

And if I went to bed by X time, how much could I get.






Sleep that is....

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