I've posted related to CS somewhere else but this question is more about going into labour before the ELCS.
I understand that if I do go into labour before the date then they treat it as a semi-EMCS. However, if I have labour pains but am not in established labour (or they do the usual go home and have a bath and some paracetamol....that old chestnut...) then what? I am also terrified they will have a staffing crisis or a spate of EMCS that day and I'll be left to be in labour. I'm really terrified as I had an awful birth last time and stupidly did not have an epidural, something I really regret. Gas and air was a waste of time and pethidine did nothing other than hurt at the injection site. I am so traumatised by the last birth that even if I get any kind of abdominal pain when not pregnant, such as wind etc(!) I feel very distressed. I understand ELCS is generally quite calm but all I seem to do is think about everything that can go wrong and I feel I just won't cope with being in labour. I'm also really worried about after the delivery- newborns are not easy. I'm not having a great pregnancy, either. I've had bleeds from an ectroption on my cervix causing a few trips to maternity triage; thankfully that was nothing to worry about, just a nuisance. Then I threw my back out, ended up on crutches and got admitted to the antenatal ward, had an MRI etc and it turns out I've disc issue. I'm still on crutches and am not able to go to work. Then got a cough and cold, tonsillitis and conjunctivitis. None of this is serous, but cumulatively, it is wearing me out!
I suppose this is a conversation to have with my midwife at the next appointment but some positive stories would help. Thanks.
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Labour before ELCS
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Blahblahblahyadayadayada · 19/12/2016 09:16
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