Hi all
I just wanted some advice/opinions please. I am 28+4 with ID twins.
At my usual appointments when I see a consultant they are now beginning to ask about the birth.
As twin A has always been head down they are advising I try naturally and hopefully twin B will either turn or they will try and manipulate her - I asked what would happen if she became distressed and consultant said they would pull her out legs first. ..
Another issue. My anxiety levels are getting higher and higher as the weeks go by. I have read the NICE guidelines and understand I can request an ElCS.
Bottom line is this- I want my two babies who were an assisted conception to be safe and arrive healthy. I don't care about me and my recovery as such as I will have support (DH & family)
I can't sleep. I burst into tears spontaneously in the day. I'm withdrawn. I'm stressed. I feel a bit fobbed off when I speak to a consultant. I get conflicted advice. When I went to triage (thought I was leaking) the consultant there said 'you do know your at higher risk of having a section?' So then why are the other consultants I speak to encouraging me to try naturally.
I get the same answers. We like 1st pregnancies to be born vaginally. There is no clinical need for a c section.
I feel like they would rather me be an emergency section case then just book me in for one then I can mentally prepare myself. I feel like I am being led towards something that is risky. What if baby B gets distressed and poo's in her waters. How will they know? What if she doesn't turn. All these questions that whirr around my head all the time and until 3am/4am.
I'm scared witless.
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mrsdoughnut · 14/04/2016 13:26
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