PIL to look after dds when I am in for induction with ds.
Feeling quite unsure about this due to MILs behaviour. Not dangerous, just boundary crossing and no responsibility taken afterwards (coslept with dd1 which is something we've never done and which left dd1 feeling very confused and upset). MIL has been overbearing and disrespectful of us as parents since dd1s birth. Hasn't been an issue with dd2 weirdly.
DH feels more comfortable with them as it means when he goes back post birth his parents are there rather than a mixture of our part time nanny and my mum. Also means they can see ds when I come back from hospital (before buggering off - another issue as they were very annoyed about our request for them to not stay for hours/overnight when I came back with dd2) as they wouldn't make a trip down without an overnight stay/lots of fuss.
How likely is this to really bug me during labour and 'put me off as it were'? Anyone else had arrangements for older children during labour that weren't totally ok for them and been able to put it out of their mind?
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pommedeterre · 04/08/2014 13:56
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