Help please! Any advice gratefully received....
I am due to have my second child in October. My first child is now 20 months. She is very clingy and likes me to carry her around a lot and is very much a mummy's girl. It is likely I will have a c-section (if i go past due date) so we're a bit worried about how my daughter will react if she's not allowed to be carried everywhere by Mum (and i have tried stopping it now...easier said than done!) and there's a new baby in the house. Anyway, my father is having a transplant 2 weeks before the birth (chances not great) and so I will have no family support including the fact that I have noone to leave my daughter with should i go into labour, and potentially a grieving situation on my hands. My mother is offering very kindly to get me a maternity nurse to arrive 2 weeks before due date and stay til the babe is 4 weeks old but I can't really get my head around it all. (Not helped by the fact we're moving house on Friday and i have 6 weeks to gut it and get it ready so head full!) I'm not sure i want someone in our house 24 hours and my husband definitely doesn't. Maybe I should get someone in 9-5? Have any of you had any similar experiences....did you manage ok without? Was it ok if you had a maternity nurse? I'd really like to manage without but I'm also a bit worried about giving birth and not managing and ending up in a pile of tears or worse, getting angry with my daughter who will be desperately trying hard to adapt. Maybe my husband should just stay at home whilst i give birth? I'd love your help with this! Thank you thank you!
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Has anyone had experiences of maternity nurses?
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dollymixture123 · 05/07/2014 19:18
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