Just above really.
My ex left me at 7 months, but still wants to be involved with the baby. My due date is Wednesday & I have always said his actions between him leaving & when I go into labour would determine whether he was at the birth or not. Well, he's been very hot & cold with me, supportive 1 minute, ignoring my messages the next.
At present I don't feel like I want him at the birth, but when I said this to him he said I have no right to not allow him, and by doing that I am refusing to let him see his child. Which I am not!
My feelings after the birth do not matter, it's what's best for our child & I have always wanted them to have contact & a stong relationship!
He has been threatening to take me to court etc if he is not allowed at the birth, Would / could this go against me if it gets that far?
Sorry for the rant / long winded message
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Do fathers have a legal right to be at the birth?
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Mummy2014 · 05/01/2014 22:14
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