I am 13 weeks pregnant with baby no3 and I have, up until this point been determined to have an elective c-sect. Here's why:
Baby no1: I origianally wanted a home water birth. Ha! 'Labour' started on weds morning, went along to the hospital for 5pm as wasn't sure if I should or not as being 1st time I didn't know what to expect.
Contractions weren't very strong but they felt it to me. Stayed for a few hours on the antenatal ward trying to sleep and taking several baths. DP sent home. Was examined and eventually reached 2cms so popped over to delivery ward, DP called back in.
At some point waters were broken, had diamorphine and couldn't stop vomiting. Had an epidural which only worked down one side, was repositioned 2 or 3 times but never fully took effect and didn't touch the excruciating pain in my back with each contraction. 2 spinal anaesthetics worked but only for an hour each time.
I was put on a drip to speed up contractions, eventually reached 9cms when they found out after examining me that baby was OP and getting tired so they prepped me for a c-sect and he was delivered at 13.30 friday afternoon.
Baby no2: I wanted a VBAC and to do it 'naturally' this time. Labour started 3am friday morning, contractions more regular and increasingly painful so popped along to the hospital for 7pm.
Examined upon arrival was found to be only 2cms which was so dissapointing so left delivery suite and advised to walk around.
After 40mins of walking up and down the hospital corridors with what felt like no break between contractions I walked back up to labour ward and upon examination (during which I had another contraction and she broke my waters, so painful) I was 7cms! Hooray!
By 8cms I was begging for an epi, anaesthetist arrived, me very sceptical it would work this time, and of course it didn't, I jumped off the bed 15mins after having it as it was more painful lying down then standing up. (What is wrong with my back that epi's don't work for me?)
So had to go without pain relief which was totally terrifying. Reached 10cms and started pushing leaning over bed but midwives persuaded me to lay on my back with legs up in stirrups and after an hour of pushing with the help of a kiwi extraction, baby no2 was born. I was lefy with a 2nd degree tear but so relieved it wasd over.
So here I am pregnant with baby no3 and from the beginning I've said I never want to do a vaginal birth again as the pros for a c-sect far outweigh the pros for a vaginal for me.
I'm terrified of the pain of labour and not being able to have relief from it, if I knew I could have an epi that would work then I might be more willing to try it but from my history, they just don't work for me.
I also found the c-sect recovery much easier then the vaginal.
So now. I'm thinking of trying a vaginal again (3rd time lucky maybe), like I want to prove to myself that I can do it? And being a 3rd I'm hoping things will be easier? I'm crazy aren't I?
What would you do?
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TheBreastmilksOnMe · 10/06/2013 15:55
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