I am expecting DC3 - DS1 and DS2 were both very premature, chances are this one will be early too, which means that despite hankering after homebirths this will be my third labour spent strapped to monitors the whole way through and therefore limited mobility (did manage to lie on side to push DS2 out but was made to be on my back with legs in air for DS1, whole experience awful). Also likely to have lots of staff about (midwives, consultant/registrar, neonatal etc) and at any sign of difficulty they will be sticking drips in my hand and prepping for possible C Section.
I think mentally I'm better prepared for it all this times but does anyone have any suggestions for how to make it all slightly less unpleasant? (how to balance on a bedpan to pee while still attached to monitors would be a good start). There seems to be loads of suggestions around for how to have lovely home waterbirth type labour with whale music and candles but nor much about what to do when strapped to a monitor in a room full of medical equipment and an incubator lurking in the corner..... Visualising my cervix opening up like a flower and all that hypnobirthy stuff is not much help when the rest of my brain is thinking 'b**y cervix why couldn't you stay shut til 37 weeks?????'
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Ways to make birth better when high risk and strapped to monitors
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Doraemon · 30/09/2012 09:43
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