I have had two both emergencies, and a long time ago, my c section babies are 50 and 48.
During my second pregnancy the consultant almost ordered me to have the tubal tie, because as he said, we cannot cut you open every time you want a baby.The decision then was to have my second baby by elective section, a rare occurrence then. Then the big man decided to give me a try to have a vaginal birth as the real reason for the first section was my baby going into transverse lie in labour.He went not transverse lie because; a) I am 4ft 10ins have narrow hips and my baby 's head did not engage. b) The doctor broke my waters, my baby moved his position.
Baby passed meconium and I went into obstructed labour, uterus was moulded round him so very quick dash to theatre just in time to save both our lives.We were both very il for a long time.
So on expert advice I go into labour again, lo and behold more complications, baby got his head stuck inside me another running by staff to get me to theatre before my uterus ruptured.
I had tubal tie done with this birth as I could not risk wait and see again.
If this was now I would have had more children by caesarean section and am envious of those people who are able to.In those days all sections are done under general anaesthesia, you were opened up with the longitudinal incision which carries a bigger risk of rupture in future pregnancies and labours.Thats why I was told I could not be cut open every time.This scar does not fade, I have it right down my abdomen in all it's glory even after 48 years.
I still envy all of you and those mentioned on here who have had more than two but I still would have stopped before I got nearer 13 though!