I hope some of you might be able to help me. i gave birth to a beautiful, healthy baby boy in june and he is wonderful and everything is great. but me and my partner have not had sex since may, i was really not in he mood at all in the last few weeks of pregnancy and obviously the first few weeks after giving birth were not the time to start things going again. but now i feel like it has been going on for so long with no sex and i am worried. we have tried a few times but it just doesn't happen. i am ready to get things back on track, but my partner just doesn;t seem interested, this was never a problem before. he is still very affectionate, tactile, tells me he loves me all the time, but i'm worried that he is not interested in me sexually anymore. i did put on some weight after having the baby. some of which i've lost, but not all. also i probably don't look so good anymore, with the extra weight and less time to spend on myself. i'm worries too that seeing me give birth has freaked him out. have any of you any advice, how long was it before your sex lives were back to normal after giving birth ?
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Tempingmaniac ·
07/10/2011 10:33
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