Hi there,
I'm due my baby boy on bonfire night, which is scary and exciting in equal measure as it's quite close now really. Time is definitely creeping up on me!
Anyway, my husband is in the RAF and we've been posted to Benson, south of Oxford, so I won't be having my boy in Aylesbury, where the mid-wife run unit is alongside the hospital so you get the best of both worlds, as we'll be moving at the end of September. So I need to now consider where to have him.
There's a birthing centre at Wallingford which is only five minutes away from where we'll be living at Benson, or we'll be going to the hospital at Oxford. Has anyone been to either? What experiences have you had?
If not, what are your experiences in general regarding hospitals or birthing centres?
I'd definitely prefer the Wallingford birthing centre if I could be sure I could take the pain. This is my first baby, I'm not good with pain ordinarily, and my mum advises an epidural (I tend to respect her advice) so that that option is not available at a birthing centre is distinctly off-putting. That those who have babies in hospital are far more likely to find themselves having an assisted delivery however also does not endear hospital births to me, and having spoken to various people I know, the quality of care and support seems to be better at the birthing centres.
So what do you think? Epidural and hospital birth or no epidural and a birth-centre?
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Where to have my baby? (esp. near Oxford) Worried about pain-relief.
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whizzyrocket · 06/08/2011 15:36
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