The more I think about it, the more I think that it's odd to have your first child at your second birth?
My first birth didn't really go according to plan, and I would like to have the second at home, but I would like my DS as far away as possible.
I can't predict how I am going to be, and I certainly wouldn't want him to feel distressed (or does them being there make you calmer....?).
He's 2, so I can't really explain it to him in a way that could reassure him. If he were older it might be different but on "One Born Every Minute" I did feel sorry for the teenager watching his Mum giving birth too.
I know people do it, but I just don't trust myself to be the reassuring and "safe" Mummy in my son's life and push a metaphorical watermelon through the eye of a needle....
Anyone got any thoughts?
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First child at your second birth
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Coldcuppacoffee · 25/05/2011 15:59
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