So this week I got the phone call from hell from another parent telling me my sons friends had been keep secret that my son had slit his wrists.
Me and his dad, separated in last nearly 2 years, went to the school, who were amazing! We both expected this to be just Chinese whispers sort of thing.
E came into the room and confirmed he had self harmed, small cat scratches on his wrist, which he had previously told me were from the puppy. She asked him if there were anymore and he rolled his sleeve to show the typical self harm marks on his forearm.
He was devastated to see us so upset, it was like my world crumbled in that one moment. He said he's not doing it again, as I would expect.
Me and his dad have been actively talking to him about it and he has been quite forthcoming which is positive. He has all sorts scheduled through the school to help him, someone to speak to etc.
I found on his phone that a reasonably new friend has done the same, he said she has track record of it.
Could it be he just tried it?
I feel lost, don't know what to do with myself, like I have failed beyond belief. Everything has been positive and I really do try and find myself trying to explain it away outwardly her inwardly I fear the worst.
Is it possible this could be the end of it now that it's out in the open?
I know there are no definitive answers, I wish there were!
Have taken all advice, told him to come to us if it happens again, no judgement just need to ensure he doesn't end up with infection etc.
Any words would really help,
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Child mental health
13yrd old son just found out self harmed
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Stace82 · 10/11/2018 08:41
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