Does anyone have any experience of this? I think it's called Trichotillomania.
She's done it about 4 times now- the first two times she was just sitting watching TV and pulled her upper eyelashes out. She was sitting 11+ exams at the time so I put it down to stress and they grew back just about. She can't remember when she did it for the third time.
Yesterday after being shouted at by a teacher and having an argument with a friend she pulled her lower lashes out.
She's generally a very confident child- sings in public, lead in school play etc. There's been some friendship issues this year and she's been magnificent- picked herself up and went out and made new friends (which in year 6 is hard). She passed entrance exams for a few schools and is going to a different school to all her friends, and she's competing in a few sports tournaments in the next few weeks so there has been a lot going on. Whilst she's confident she's also very emotional and cries/shouts/ strops very easily.
Initially I admit I was baffled and a bit irritated but then I remembered that I pick and pull at the skin on my fingers- I have to have false nails otherwise I just can't stop. I'm worried that this behaviour is on the same spectrum and that it's my fault.
Things I've instituted are: 1) diary so we can track what she's doing/ feeling when she does it; 2) expensive eyelash serum; 3) I've bought a very fine brown mascara that you can't really tell she's wearing but makes her eyelashes stiff which feels different if she touches them; 4) if she manages to grow them back I've said she can have her ears pierced!
Does anyone have any experience if this? What worked? What triggers it? What can I do to help her?
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Child mental health
11yo DD pulling her eyelashes out.
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strugglingwithmaths · 20/06/2017 09:25
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