My DS is very anxious child who is very resistant at walking to school.
He doesn't sleep well, often has nightmares and can't get back to sleep.
He won't sleep in his own room/bed....preferring to share with his sisters or us.
He won't go upstairs to the toilet on his own. If we don't go with him, he will wet himself. He won't be on his own at all at home.
His stomach ache kinda comes and go but has been constant for the last three weeks. Doctor says no physical illness just anxiety.
He hates school. Claims he has no friends and everything is hard and boring. Taking him to school over the last 18 months has been a nightmare....from kicking, screaming to sitting on the floor refusing to walk to hiding. More calm recently but still uoset and anxious, no fun :(
School say he is fine and has loads of friends and he is happy there. I do not believe them and they are clear they do not believe in me either.
I worry he is masking his anxiety at school. School do not believe in masking.
He is going through various assessments and under a comm paed next appointment in four months.
Salt has referred him to social classes for his social communication difficulties, which I hope will help at school but that is six months off.
He is also scared of dieing and of me getting ill and has threatened to throw himself under a car to avoid school on several occasions (I am pretty sure he doesn't mean it, just showing me how distressed he feels)
What can I do to help reduce his anxiety, I just want him to be happy and not be in pain and upset. :(
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How to reduce anxiety in 6 yo DS ?
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