I am a newly single parent currently home educating my son due to his severe school refusal.
All his anxiety boils down to the fact he suffers greatly with separation anxiety. I spent the last 5 years in and out of hospital often at short notice, he missed me terribly.
Now he won't leave my side (maybe not helped by home edding) he won't go to any activities , I took him in to kids club at church I had to stay with him he clung to my side the whole time and wouldn't join in. He cried for an hour when I told him I was going to the cinema with my sister . He co-sleeps, only able to fall asleep if I am lay with him. He follows me round the house having to be in the same room with me. If I leave to go to the toilet I have to tell him (sometimes he waits outside). He is very sensitive and cries easily, he seems very anxious and when upset tells me he wants to kill himself.
I am very worried for his mental health now and in the future. I worry he will never be able to leave me and be confident to be on his own. I cry most nights as I see him asleep and know he struggles. I really don't know what to do to help him, and I feel he needs help to be a little boy again :'-(
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Child mental health
Separation anxiety in 9 year old ds
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LifeChangingMe · 04/11/2013 23:08
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