I have a teenager who will not be seen without her mask of makeup, she takes at least an hour to put it on and therefore all spontaneity has gone from her life. She is making both herself miserable and the family, if we have unexpected guests she will hide in her room for the duration and give us grief afterwards with screaming and shouting (this can happen whilst the guests are there if I approach her room). This has been going on for about 2 years gradually getting worse.
I have now approached our GP who will be referring her on for help; although my daughter kicked off when I told her this.
This week I finally managed to have a discussion with my daughter about this and she recognised that she has a problem. She cannot work out how to deal with it and neither can I. I have told her to gradually start using less foundation, but as we are about to go away on holiday with another family she steadfastly refuses to proceed with this now.
She got very upset during our talk with tears and sobs.
There is nothing wrong with my daughters face that I can see, but then I rarely see her without foundation. She is an attractive girl, but she says her face is scarred(?).
Any suggestions about how to help her?
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Child mental health
Body Dysmorphia - Facial/Make up
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deborahjean · 04/08/2011 10:44
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