Dh has had ms for 18 years and we now have 2 dc under 5. I held of having them as I was unsure of the impact on his health and me being main carer.
So now at 44 I feel worn out being the major breadwinner with the burden of responsibility always being on my shoulders.
My dh does work in a low paid p/t job despite having professional qualifications, he was out of the job market for 7 years and has never got back into his profession.
In order for him to work( which he needs for his self worth) I do pretty much everything in the house and entertain our dc as well as working of course.
Our families and friends are respectful of his ms and always ask after him but this is my main bug bear, no one ever asks how I am. I am f*ed keeping all the balls up in the air.
I have tried to explain to some friends how life is for me but I just don't think they get it.
I am not sure what I am looking for but needed to get that out.
Now breath.....
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giggly · 20/02/2011 23:54
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