12yo DD started High School this year. She has a great group of friends and is doing well academically.
She met a girl in her year, who at first she thought was nice, but then some minor drama happened and this girl and her friends started saying things to DD. Commenting on her size, looks and etc.
DD told me about this but said she was ignoring it and I didn't need to speak to the school.
It got a bit more intense when this girl started saying she was going to beat up DD, but DD said she would be safe in school and would be with friends so I wasn’t to worry. Then the girl and her friends started following DD around the school.
I looked at DD’s phone (which I do weekly) and it seems she and the girl have been exchanging voice messages. The girl is full of abusive language and externally violent threats. Dd unfortunately has been a bit goady but is mainly saying she doesn’t want to fight and to leave her alone. Both of them have friends in the background egging things on.
The girl has said that she and her friends will “jump” DD on Monday.
I’ve recorded all the messages and I want to send them the the community police officer. Violent threats over social media are a crime.
But DD doesn’t want me to. She also doesn’t want me to go to the school.
I don’t think I have a choice. But DD will hate me if I do.
Has anyone been through similar, what should I do?
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OneBigMother · 02/11/2019 09:15
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