Hi Mumsnetters, Ive name changed as this post is very outing.
my DD is 2 yrs and 4 months old and attends nursery fulltime, over Christmas break her speech rapidly improved to the point she sings full song and mostly coherent sentences.
On the way home for nurseries most night she would say a specific childs name , accompanied by no hitting, no kicking. I figured it was something she heard and was just repeating.
A few weeks ago she started having terrible night mares, she was waking up shaking, so I co-slept a few nights with her, in her sleep she kept repeating this childs name and saying don't hurt me, and no hitting etc. I complained to nursery who advised they are aware of this childs behaviour and dealing with it.
The childs wasn't in nursery last week and the manager enquired how DD had been - I said she had had another night mare on the Tuesday. to which she said that well that child hasn't been in this week....
At the weekend, DD was out with parents and she was singing a certain song, half way through she stopped and shouted "childs first and second name no hitting face" and continued to chant this. On the sunday she was in the car with me singing the same song, when she shouts out he same phrase, so I say that's right no hitting faces, to which she starts talking about her key worker and saying "are you ok keyworker" I was driving and saying am sure Keyworker ok, but she kept saying "keyworker sad" and "hurt" so I pulled over and DD is in tears!! Later that night DH and I where relaxing and DD playing and singing, she starts on the same song and I said to DH, just listen don't join in. To which she starts saying "don't hurt me".
Ive complained to nursery - but I don't think they are taking it seriously at all. (at pick up last night they were over ratio with this child in the room!)
There was an incident I recall 2-3 months ago when DD keyworker had been badly scratched by a child, she confirmed today it was that child.
Is it possible the my DD is recalling and reliving this event from months ago, and the specific song it triggering it? If so what can I do??
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NurseryFightClub · 23/01/2018 13:08
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