Hi everyone I am just looking for advice and opinions on this. My dd is 11 and in first year at high school, things have gone terribly from the start. There is a boy in her year that has adhd. He was bullying her via FaceTime for a while but I couldn't do anything about it as I had no proof...until I recorded him. He called my dd over 40 times in 20 mins when she answered the iPad. He told her she was a fuking fat cnt and a useless piece of shit. 'I'm gonna spank your mum so hard my fingers are gonna come out the other side of her' 'my dick is gonna be in your mouth so far I won't have a knob anymore' I grabbed the iPad from her and attempted to tell him off with no effect whatsoever! He told me he was on his way round to see wether I was as good tonight as I was last night! A lot of you will say why didn't I end the call? But he's been using this disgusting language towards her at school and no one has believed us so I needed hard evidence! I of course called the police and his mother was told to remove him from social media and take away his phone. He has since done the same to another child and her mother and I was told yesterday that he is being prosecuted for assaulting another female pupil, which kind of assault I don't know. A day in isolation had no effect and he's carried on and on. Yesterday I had a visit from the police to tell me that my dd had said to him he was a 'little shit and he needed a cucumber shoving up his little A hole' she now has isolation for this at school. I understand that what she said is wrong but she was only repeating to him something he'd said to her mother! The truth is I have not brought my dd up to use this language, I have been told that this boy is now in care due to abuse but why should all the kids in that year suffer as a consequence of what happened to him? I have removed her from all social media now but that won't stop the abuse in school! I feel like he's getting away with murder because of his past. I feel really unsafe about sending her to school now, what if he actually carried out one of the acts he was stating he was going to do? What sort of abuse is he being done for? If it is sexual do I have a right to know who I'm sending my dd to school with?? I have thought about moving her but the other school is right down the motorway and I have to get my 2 ds's to school in the other direction
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Ouriana ·
26/04/2016 01:17
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