Hi all, really don't know what to do after this incident in school today. Here it is.
Picked up DS (year 2) today. Saw dried tears on his cheeks and asked him what happened as you would. He told me that he got pushed off a ladder on playground rather hard during lunch time by an older boy. DS, DS's best friend (who was with him at the time and saw it happening) and this boy got questioned by a staff member.
This older boy stated that DS kicked him in dinner hall. That's why he pushed DS off the ladder afterwards. DS denied doing it. And his best friend said DS did not do it. The staff shouted at DS, called him a liar and said he is guilty of kicking the boy. And DS was sent to sit in their 'naughty corner' while sobbing his eyes out (DS is a gentle and kind boy as his previous teachers have said.)
I questioned DS if he did kick the boy when he walked past him while the boy was sitting down eating his dinner. DS said he did not touch him and he does not recall the older boy turning around to look at him while DS walked past him.
What upset me is how could the staff only punish one child when they did not see what happened, spoke to DS in such a way that upset him and listened to one side of story only. I was not informed of this at all either (DS complained of his side where he landed hurt).
I would like to have words with school but I do not want to go in all guns blazing lol. What's the best way to approach this?? (sorry about the long winded post but just rather upset and hoping this is the right topic)
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MrsM2008 · 16/07/2015 21:33
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