Hello.
My son is 8 and in year 3. He has been friends with boy x for five years as his mum and I are friends. We get along well but are not very close.
Every few months my son complains of boy x following him around, getting on his nerves and annoying him generally (my son's words).
I know boy x really likes my son and wants to be friends with him. Over the years my son has developed new friendships, which boy x finds hard to accept.I know they sometimes have a love/hate relationship, but this week things have come to a head.
The friend pinned my son up against the wall by his throat and threatened not to be his friend anymore if he didn't play with him.
My son would not make this up, so I do believe him that this has happened.The last few days my son has been so scared of going to school, he hasn't been sleeping and has a constant worry tummy
ache.
Today I wanted to speak to the teacher about this again (my husband and I have had to speak to the teacher each year as this kept cropping up every few moths. Things improve but then get worse again).The teacher is off sick today and I am so upset.
What do you think I should do?Shall I call and ask to speak to the head today?
Shall I call the school and make an excuse to collect my son at lunch time?
And how to I tackle the fact that this boy is my friend's child without it affecting our friendship negatively?
I feel so awful knowing that my son is at school with belly ache and is exhausted from not sleeping because of worrying about this boy.
Any advice is gratefully appreciated.
Thank you.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Find advice from others who have experienced school or workplace bullying on our Bulllying forum.
Bullying
Son is being bullied by my friend's child.
9 replies
kakiqueen · 22/01/2014 11:18
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.