My DS is 6yo, Y2.
He has had some run ins with a boy in his class and I don't know what is normal behaviour and what isn't? I don't think it is bullying, it doesn't seem that serious to me, but it is getting worse and my DS is upset about it. I'll call the other boy X.
They have been in the class together since YR and up until a few months ago they were good friends. My DS still considers X to be a good friend and goes up to him to play during breaktimes. X runs away and encourages any boys with him to also run away from my DS. The boys with X vary and I don't really think it's anything to do with any of them. DS will generally approach again and ask them to play and again, X will get all of them to run away. If my DS approaches again (which he will because he thinks X is still his friend), then X will start calling him names, taking the mick out of him and laughing etc. Then DS will get upset and go and sit on his own, probably take it to heart and be miserable and grumpy during lessons.
So, I suppose the questions are whether this is ordinary 6yo stuff and therefore does my DS need to toughen up? Do I need to spell it out to DS that this boy no longer likes him and doesn't want to be his friend at all so my DS must stop asking to play with him at breaktimes? Or do 6yo boys generally just play in a bundle and not really worry about who is playing and who isn't - in which case I would have to talk to the school about X excluding DS? I don't really know what to think so any advice would be appreciated. As background, X is a little bit of a practical joker sort of child and my DS is a bit more sensitive. I don't know if it has gone beyond a joke now though because DS is being excluded every day? I have told my DS to find other children to play with, he is friendly with all of the boys (unfortunately not really interested in playing with girls) but it never seems to happen. TIA!
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Need to know what is "normal" behaviour for 6yo boys in Y2 please
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purplecrayon · 19/11/2012 21:25
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