Hi, I'm really not sure where to post this, or what is the correct procedure.
Last week DD, age 7 and in year 2, took some Doctor Who cards to school. She traded some with other children. Later on she got very upset because she had traded her 'rare autograph' card with a year 3 boy, who basically just 'took' it off her, even though she did not want to trade that card.
Now, I have told her no more taking cards to school. But she was so upset she couldn't get to sleep Friday night, and she thinks I am going help her get the card back.
When DD comes up to me at a playground, for example, I tend to let her sort things out herself. This is an example, like if she says "mummy that girl is being mean." I think children should to some extent sort things out for themselves, how else will they learn? They can't have their mum coming up and saying "being nice to my child" every time there is a dispute on a playground. Or am I wrong?
I don't know what to do about this trading card because DD is so upset, but I don't think I can just find the little boy, and say that DD didn't want to trade it.
Advice?
Thank you
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marykat2004 · 17/10/2011 14:18
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