Morning,
I am new to Mumsnet & in need of some advice, please.
My DD started at a very reputable private preschool 2 weeks ago.
I picked her up very early last Friday & made a point of asking the teachers if my DD was happy & making friends.
The teachers said:
"yes, but there has been a little friction with another child. But they're playing nicely now."
I didn't think anything of it until my DD told me that the other child had put her hands around her neck and choked her.
Needless to say I was in shock!
I asked my DD exactly what happened and she told me that this was not the first time this child had done this.
It played on my mind all weekend, so on Sunday I emailed the teachers & the parents of this child to inform them that I was aware of what happened.
My partner told me not to email and so speak to the teachers on Monday.
I told him that the teachers had ample time to tell me on Friday but they didn't. Choking is something that I will not tolerate, especially at such a young age! My DD said it is not the first time this child had done it.
The email reply I received from the parents of the child was extremely defensive. They said that this was a "minor situation" and told me to "refrain from any further correspondence on the matter".
Yesterday, I spoke to the teachers and they explained that the other child choked my daughter for no reason, was put on time-out and told to apologise. The teachers had to record the incident and also checked my DD's neck for bruising.
This morning I dropped my daughter at school, as per usual, but I told her not to play with the child who choked her. I was greeted by my DD's teacher who said that the head of pre-school wants to speak to me today before pick-up.
I am absolutely angry at the way this whole situation has panned out and I'm ready to meet the head BUT I feel that it should not have come to this.
I should have been told by the teachers not by my distressed 3 yr old!
However, I don't want to loose my cool at the school - any advice would be much appreciated.
Has anyone else had this type of thing happen to them?
What advise would you give?
What would you do?
Thank you in advance!
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My 3yr old DD was choked at Preschool by another 3yr old girl
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MummyOfLittleBigGirl · 27/09/2011 10:43
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