please please please someone give me some advice im feeling really desperate!!!
my ds has been happily breast fed and i was really lucky never to get any problems...until about 2 weeks ago. He has started to feed really quickly (i know they speed up as they get more efficient, but im talking ususally less than 5 minutes) - he gulps down the milk as it comes in but then where as he used to slow down to that regular suck suck suck gulp rhythm (if you know what i mean), thats the point that he comes off the boob, arches backwards and starts crying, if i try to latch on again, he might have a couple of sucks, but seems to become really frustrated and quickly starts to really melt down, screaming his head off.
He has been taking a bottle of ebm last thing, so that dp can feed him,,,,is it possible that he is rejecting the boob in favour of fast flowig milk from the bottle? we have been doing the ebm in a bottle since he was about six weeks, but this is a recent problem.
I have tried burping him when he screams and sometimes he does burp and go back for another suck but comes off again really quick.
When i express, I think my milk supply has gone down, as i seem to be getting less these days than i used to. I have gone back to work 3 weeks ago, im a childminder so im still with ds all dayso can feed him when he needs it, but we are more busy now, with a noisy 3 year old here all day. Maybe he is unsettled? he does seem very distractable when feeding now....
he did feed properly last night for 45 mins and for an hour in bed this morning, but most feeds during the day have become these screaming episodes. I just tried to feed him now and the same thing happened, so we had to give him a bottle of ebm, he gulped down 6 ounces no problem, which makes me feel awful, he is hungry so why isnt he feeding from me???????
Sorry for the long message, i feel desperately sad about this, i feel really rejected ( know this is daft, but feel so tearful about our once gorgeous feeding times becoming so traumatic)and im so worried that the more he does this , the more my supply will go down and i will dry up all togeter.
Lastly, i got him weighed on friday , for the first time since he was about 11 weeks and he has dropped a centile in weight. hv suggested we try to supplement with an extra feed at 11ish (like a dream feed) with formula, or ebm if i can express enough, which we have been doing. . hate giving him formula, i know thats silly too, its not poison, but i feel that if i do this he will get 2 bottles a day and go off the breast totally.
lastly, has anyone tried one of those haberman feeders taht the baby whisperer recommends? they are meant to be more like the flow from the breast and make baby work harder? would that be worth a try?
please let me know if anyone else has had these problems and solved it, im desperate for advice!!
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jojo76 · 29/07/2005 20:09
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