My ds is 23 weeks and has never been a great sleeper generally waking up every 2-4 hours. About a month ago he started waking every hour, sometimes less, so I thought enough was enough and did a version of pick up put down, and allowed him one feed during the night at 3am. It went well for a week or two but he just started waking more and more and I thought it might just be easier to feed him than try and settle him in other ways as sometimes it took a while to get him back down and he really didn't seem to be getting the message. So I started to feed him again and it has got more and more, so last night he was up every hour again.
He is exclusively breastfed. He goes to bed at 7.30pm and I give a dream feed at 10ish. I've tried to drop the dream feed to see if that helped but it didn't. He is still quite small on the bottom centile in growth charts, but is thriving and is a really happy baby.
But I'm beginning to be an unhappy mum. I am really happy to do one night feed. Maybe even two. But every hour is just not sustainable. I can't do it. It's making me pissed off with everything and everyone.
I don't want to do controlled crying as I think he is far too young, but has anyone got any ideas to help me please. Like I said I would do one feed, but is it confusing for him to not feed him a few times, then to feed him at a certain time? Would it be better to not feed him at all through the night and just offer water? I can't keep up the hourly wakings but have not got a clue how to sort it out.
When he wakes in the morning he is not really interested in feeding, I suppose because he has fed so much in the night, and it tends to mess our routine up a bit as well, so I struggle more to read his signals (I'm not doing a "routine", I just mean how our day tends to go).
Apologies for the long post. I hope someone can offer me some sort of suggestion.
Thanks in advance...
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shirleycat1 · 23/10/2009 16:52
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