I had an antenatal class tonight that focused on breast feeding. I was perhaps being daft, but I honestly thought that about 99% of people at least tried (I mean, OK if it is not for you, but why not try?) but apparently it is only about 50% or so.
Everyone else in the class was really worried about doing it in public as well, again I thought only really shy people who had somehow never seen anyone else BFing would worry about that. I BF my DD for four months (until I had to go on medication) and it never even occurred to me to be shy about it, but then I suppose I have younger siblings and cousins who were BF so I know how subtle it can be. Also I do tend to be quite blase about nakedness and so on.
These are things I kind of understood happened, and felt sorry for people for whom BF wasn't familiar, but I thought they would be in the minority...
I also thought they made it sound much harder then it is, most of the talk focused on all the problems and made it sound really technical, surely they could just tell you the signs of problems and to ask a breastfeeding expert for advice? DD had problems and was an hour away from being on a drip, but a BF councillor sorted us out and then it was the easiest thing in the world. I remember BF walking around the uni library!
Also the DVD they showed was all of women feeding with cushions and footrests and with their entire boob on show, all in the exact same position. I know they need to show things clearly, and that is probably the best position, but it gave the impression that BF is some massive project to embark on. Also there was not one man in the DVD, they could have at least briefly shown a little family snuggling up in bed with the mum on her side, or a woman enjoying a brew in a cafe, casually wrapped in a cardi, and then revealed that she was in fact BF.
I asked about donating some milk to a milk bank, and the other women all looked at me like I was some kind of militant BF freak!
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LissyGlitter · 01/10/2009 22:51
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