I am still breastfeeding DS to sleep at night, when he wakes at night and sometimes for his naps. He is 10m. I know that this is frowned upon by Penelope Leach and other baby experts but that is the only way he will go to sleep. If I put him down a bit sleepy to settle himself he wakes himself up and either squawks, cries or plays himself into a wide awake state. He occasionally goes to sleep that way. He can put himself to sleep on his own on occasions and when he is with other carers.
My questions are:
- when should I start letting him settle himself? Have I left it too late? Will he ever learn to go asleep on his own without boob?
- am I damaging his teeth?
- am I destined to feed him to sleep until eternity...
He sleeps quite well, though not through the night very often. He has a night-time ritual which is very effective (his eyelids start drooping at the mere sight of "Goodnight moon") although has been poorly this week and constantly on the boob.