I know it's probably normal yadda yadda, and this too will pass (when???? when???) but I'm really close to losing it. DD2 has always woken many times in the night and will only go back to sleep with a feed. Sometimes I think she's just using me as a dummy but most of the time she has a good old feeding session for 10 or so minutes so is obvious she needs/likes/wants more than just a quick suckle.
This has gone on since birth so it's not just a growth spurt or that four month sleep regression thing (how I wish we had something to regress from). We co-slept until a few weeks ago and since then have been putting her back in her cot - next to my bed - after every feed in the hope that a bit of separation from my norks might help. Mostly it hasn't. I don't want to go back to co-sleeping. I just want things to get better. I can't cope with this neverending exhaustion. God, to just have to feed her once or twice in the night - I would happily put up with that for the next year. But this I can't deal with.
Last night she went to bed at 6pm, then woke at 10.30, 12.30, 2.30, 4.30, 5.30 and the only time she didn't seem properly hungry was 5.30. And she'll only sleep for one very precise 45 minute sleep cycle x4 in the daytime so I can't catch up then either.
Help me. Reassure me. Tell me it will get better soon.
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20 week old wakes for feeds every 2 hours at worst, 4 at best and I'm going insane
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ejbab · 23/09/2009 12:02
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