I am very upset today and wondered if anyone had advice for me. My baby is 17 weeks and is exclusively breast fed. He was born early and was IUGR, was only 1.9kg (4lb 6 oz) at birth, and in the hospital they gave him some formula (Aptamil First) as top up alongside the breast feeding, because he was so small and did not suck very well at first. I was really really keen to breast feed and I stopped the formula at about three weeks and have breast fed exclusively since then.
He was growing OK, not spectacularly but steadily along the 2nd centile, and I was feeling very pleased with myself. I love breast feeding and felt wonderful to be providing all his food. I did not have a very good supply however, and have been using Domperidone and fenugreek to boost it. He is "demand fed" and eats whenever and for as long as he wnats.
Today is my first day back at work, so rather a stressful milestone. Baby's daddy is at home looking after him, with bottles of expressed milk. He took him to the baby clinic for his weighing today and there he was told that baby is not growing fast enough and they are concerned, and must bring him back again next week. (DH said the lady was not at all friendly and seemed rather accusing. Every time I have had him weighed befrore they have said things were going fine and well done).
I am now sitting at work, having done some pumping at my desk, feeling really upset that my milk is apparantly not enough for the baby. DH suggested starting him on some baby rice to get him to gain weight, but I am aware that this is very frowned on until he is six months. I am therefore now thinking of returning to mixed feeding, topping him up with formula after each time I feed him. I feel sad at the idea of having to dp this, I was so keen to get him to 6 months just on breast milk, but if he is not growing obviously that may not be possible.
Sorry this is so long, I am feeling rather at a loose end.
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breastfed baby, 17 weeks, not growing fast enough (sorry a bit long)
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redtabby · 21/09/2009 11:44
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