I was out for dinner a couple of months ago with two childless friends who we don't see very often any more (we moved 200 miles away while I was heavily pregnant). DD was about nine months at the time and they suddenly asked how long I was intending to go on breastfeeding for. It quickly became apparent that they thought that feeding as long as we had was a bit hippyish and eccentric (I am generally considered to be a bit hippyish and eccentric, so they obviously thought this was yet another manifestation of my strange ways). One of them told me that it wasn't really necessary now she was on solids (BLW and doesn't eat much!). I was so taken aback that I couldn't really give them any decent answers, not helped by DH chipping in with his views on extended bfing
Since then I've spent several weeks furiously arguing with them in my head and composing angry (hypothetical) emails, the way you do when you couldn't think of a response at the time. I've come to realise though that they are coming from a position of ignorance, not because they are anti-bf per se. I remember being genuinely amazed to read that bfing is recommended up to two years (and beyond) as I had absolutely no idea it would still be beneficial at that age. I do therefore think that they might be more supportive if they knew a few more of the facts. I was thinking of emailing them something like this, which seems relatively clear and concise.
Any thoughts? I have seen one of them since (and am due to see her again in a few weeks) but it didn't come up again, although now I tense up in case I suddenly get challenged again!
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Should I email my friends re breastfeeding?
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DitaVonCheese · 01/09/2009 10:40
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