please help me as i am at the end of my tether.
ds has always been a total bosom monster (and poor eater). Dairy intolerant too so introducing formua has never been an option.
he wants to bf constantly, 6 times a night at least and more so in the day.
he will only unlatch if i force him, (after very long feeds) then he screams and kicks and gets very angry. I keep trying to cut down, offer chocolate buttons etc. I have tried everything. He gets so angry. The minute he wakes up he wants feeding, if we are in or out makes no difference. he just wants feeding all the time.
I am getting so frustrated and often now get so angry and end up shouting at him as he is constantly pulling at my top and if i don't feed he kicks and pushes me. I can't go on.
In trying to be a good mother and bf and comfort i actually feel i am being a bad mother in that i get so stressed now with him.
Therefore i am wondering whether to just go cold turkey as that seems to be at least more consistent for him and might be less traumatic than me feeding him then unlatching him.
I don't really want to go cold turkey, but is it really that bad?
I would be happy to continue bfing if it was just a couple of times a day, but i don't know how to make this happen anymore.
I don't want to wait another year or so to self wean as i want to TTC and have a history of miscarriages and am quite old.
Do you think dairy intolerant plays a part? I am reluctant to give up entirely as he is off the bottom of the weight chart, although perfectly healthy in every other way.
Any experience of total bosom monster or cold turkey?
All advice appreciated as I am really at the end of my tether with this and it is spoiling my relationship with my ds not to meantion my dh
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deperate!! 18 mth bfing 20+ times a day. Tantrums. How can i stop? HELP PLEASE
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kalo12 · 30/07/2009 09:41
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