I have one DS who is 2 and a half, and am 18 weeks pregnant.
Before I had DS I always knew that breastfeeding might be a challenge as my nipples are very flat, inverted and don't stick out at all - in fact if pinched they sort of react in the same way as if you were to try to pinch a water balloon if that makes sense? Added to this DS was born at 31+3 by emergency c-section, and I expressed for him as he was being tube fed. I spent a long time trying to breastfeed and refusing any bottles (even of EBM) in case he got confused. He tried so hard, but he just couldn't latch on. Added to that, being prem meant that he was very very sleepy for the first few weeks. I eventually resorted to a nipple shield and that was seeming to work at first, so we were sent home. However, 4 days in his nappies were dry and green, he was more sleepy than ever and he had lost weight when the midwife visited. So I tried to express and found that instead of my usual 150ml, I managed 25ml - my supply had been dwindling because the nipple shields weren't enough stimulation it seems. At that point I thought "What am I doing?!" and got some recently expressed milk from the fridge and fed it to him in a bottle (which came with the steriliser). I cried and felt like I'd failed. However, I managed to give DS exclusively breastmilk (albeit EBM) for 6 months, and some breastmilk until he was over 7 months, when I stopped as it was getting harder to keep him occupied.
Well, fast forward to now and I'm pregnant. I can't face the idea of not giving my next child breastmilk as well, and am committed to the idea of expressing again, armed with all the knowledge I picked up along the way last time. The thing is, I am wondering how I will get anything done and will I be able to manage with a toddler AND a baby? I am imagining that Mumsnet being what it is someone out there will have done this! Any tips?
Sorry for the long post I do ramble on!
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Exclusively expressing a 2nd time - this time I would have a toddler...anyone else done this?
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