My 7 week old baby refuses to nap during the day and wants to feed pretty much constantly. He's been like this now for almost 3 weeks and I just don't know what to do. If he's awake and not eating, he's crying and if I offer him my breast he eats. I've tried to breast feed him to sleep and sometimes that works, but usually as soon as I put him his eyes ping open and he's wide awake.
He cries when he's in his sling and he cries in his pram. So basically the only time he is not crying is if he is feeding. I'm offering him the breast because I don't know what else to do, but it seems to be making him want it more and more. Also I feel that I can't really go out much because he'll cry and wants food all the time.
I set up all the right conditions for him to sleep (white noise, swaddle, feed, stroke head, etc) and try and catch him early, an hour or 2 from when he first wakes. But basically I feel that I am spending the entire day trying to coax him into sleep and feeding him. It never seems to be us just relaxing together and I'm finding it really frustrating.
During the night it's not too bad. He wakes for a feed every 2 hours or so and generally goes back down to sleep after. If he is not settling we will bring him into bed with us and he usually settles then.
Everywhere I read that at his age he still needs lots of sleep and the fact that he's not getting it worries me. But he just fights it and I don't know what to do.
I feel that I am resorting to breast all the time and now he won't settle for anything else. He refuses a dummy. I just feel like I'm doing it all wrong. I want to make him happy and to help him to sleep and enjoy our time together, but nothing I do seems to work.
Any advice from fellow mums would be great. Cheers...
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iloveavocado · 09/07/2009 17:27
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