Firstly id like to thank you for the great advice youve given on here - ive always lurked and found your advice really informative but feel like im at my wits end now and am hoping you could give me some advice.
My lo is 12weeks and from birth hes fed hourly. I have always demand fed and he ends feeds i never unlatch him. His weight gain has been fine since he was 3wks prior to that it was slow but i think this was due to a rubbish latch, since week3 hes gained between 7-9oz a week. Since 9wks he settled to 5oz pw, i last had him weighed when he was 11weeks. Im finding the hourly feeds very hard, i do also have a four and five year old and dont get any time with them...lo is very grumpy all the time, hes never satisfied with the feeds, crys and constantly roots for the breast and im unsure what to do. Im worrying that my milk isnt satisfying him, and i hear his tummy growling which makes me feel awful. Am i being selfish putting my needs in front of his, i really wanted to bf him til hes one and feel im not listening to him because im so determined to do it, but of course his happyness is no1, just so confused with whats best - surely a 3month old feeding like a newborn still cant be right, i just want him to be happy. I know his latch is fine, all the hv says is hes not getting enough hindmilk....but hes gaining and i never unlatch him so i cant see how after a feed that can last an hour a time isnt giving him what he needs....
Ant advice would be really appreciated.
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kmummy · 13/06/2009 15:52
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