Failed miserably with DS 3 years ago. Had loads of support but a combination of factors meant I ended up sort of mixed feeding for a few weeks and then gave up in despair. Hard to even type this post without getting teary. I am 23 wks pregnant and wondering whether it would be better for me if I don't even try it this time.
Possible factors last time seem to be:
Both DS and I were possibly traumatised by very rapid birth.
I was given a shot of pethidine less than 10 mins before DS literally shot out.
Due to SPD and PUPPPS I hardly got any sleep for the last few weeks so was exhausted by the time I went into labour.
I have flat nipples and very large norks, while DS was quite small with a small mouth.
I had an infection in my milk(colostrum was brown) so was put on ABs and had to express and then bin my milk while taking them.
Never seemed to get a proper 'let down', only ever managed to express a couple of ounces.
Lastly, not sure which if any of these factors contributed to this but DS actively seemed to reject me. DS was fed in various ways (cup, syringe) to avoid a bottle to begin with but took to a bottle with gusto making me feel like sh*t not to have done that from the beginning.
BF is now tied up with PND which followed very quickly .
So, has anyone managed to breastfeed successfully second time round after an awful first time?
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MsBrandybuck · 30/05/2009 14:19
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