Hi all... This is my first post, so here goes!
It all started on Christmas eve, when I went shopping with my 3 year old, leaving my hubby with the baby (11 weeks at the time... exclusively breastfed, but had taken drink of water from bottle before, so I knew she could drink from bottle). I left 3oz formula in bottle in case she couldnt be settled.... well guess what, she drank 2oz and seemed to love it!
Since then, on most days, she has been grouchy and I have given her either 2oz or 3oz of formula (just to top up on one feed, at teatime). I thought this would help me a bit as I feel I am struggling a little with a 3 year old and a new baby (mainly with the breastfeeding ... the time I took to feed my first was the only thing I did, whereas now, I am trying to juggle more things).
Anyway, went to get the baby weighed and she is dropped from 75th centile to 50th in the last 2 weeks (although still has gained 4oz in weight)
I have since reflected on the last 2 weeks, and have noticed a trend of the baby preferring the bottle to my breast and in the last few days, she is screaming uncontrollably when I put her to the breast (not at night, just during day), so much so, that today I ended up crying myself, and gave her formula (she only took 3.5oz). I feel so guilty that for easiness I have given her formula, and now it feels like she wont take to the breast again. I have really tried for 2 days and feel even worse when she is so fretful, she becomes hysterical.
I really wanted both my daughters to be breastfed until the age of 1 (managed fine with my first born, but had nothing else to do really!) and now, at 3 months, things are spiralling downhill with my newborn.
I really dont want to stop bf, but I feel it cant be OK to let the baby become too distressed over feeding.
What should I do?
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