I am currently BF my 3 week old DS2. He has a formula feed at bed time. He was 10lb 5oz when he was born and went down to 9lb 6oz. 2 days later he had only put on 1oz and MW made us give formula top ups. He is now back up to 10lb 4oz so in reality is at his birth weight.
We did struggle and I did nearly give up when he was a few days old. Despite reading about engorgement I wasn't expecting it to hurt so much, also I didn't know they afterpains would be so bad. I cried through most of his feeds in the first week. Plus I felt guilty that I didn't have the time for DS1. But I didn't give up and kept going.
But I for some unknown reason still have thoughts about giving up BF. It is getting me down now as I actually really enjoy BF. I find it relaxing, calming and I know it is great for bonding. I rang LLL earlier and she was great and said that quite a few women ring with a similar problem. She advised that I continue BF but in the long run it has to be my decision.
Anyone else felt at all like this? I am awfully confused.
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kayzr · 02/01/2009 22:13
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