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How do I get my 11 week old breastfed son to go longer between feeds at night.

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stiggywiggywoo Tue 28-Oct-08 15:10:32

How do I get my 11 week old breastfed son to go longer between feeds at night. At the moment is he is sleeping 6 hours straight, which is great but it is usually between 7pm and 1am. After that he is waking every 1 and a half hours and taking a large feed - usually from both breasts. I just wish he could go longer between these night feeds as I need some sleep.

jkklpu Tue 28-Oct-08 15:12:25

I'd count myself extremely lucky about the 6-hour stretch, go to bed early myself and grit my teeth for the rest. He's still very small, really.

isaidboo Tue 28-Oct-08 15:13:41

Have you tried feeding lying down? This is what I do so I can go straight back to sleep once latched on. I put dd back when i next wake and realise she's finished (or keep her in bed til morning!)

madmouse Tue 28-Oct-08 15:16:27

what jkklpu says

he may change it all next week anyway, they do at this age.

DeJaVousdoo Tue 28-Oct-08 15:17:24

I totally understand your need for more sleep, the sleep will come, but TBH you'll probably have to wait a little while.

Six hours is a really long stretch for such a little chap, although I can see it would be frustrating that it's 7 - 1 and not 1 - 7. Like jkklpu says, get to bed early when you can.

Sorry I can't offer a simple, immediate solution. You're doing a fantastic job, this phase will passsmile

DeJaVousdoo Tue 28-Oct-08 15:18:43

Feeding laying down is an absolute life saver, why didn't I remember to recommend that?

Libra1975 Tue 28-Oct-08 15:22:44

I hate to break it to you but my 15 week old still does exactly the same, as the others say I just go to bed early! However I know some recommend a dream feed at 10:30pm with lights low and no stimulus to tank them up over night. Some babies it works with some still wake up at 1am!

UmMwahahahaaaaa Tue 28-Oct-08 15:41:20

Well, my 14 week old has no 6 hr stretch - mostly does every two hours, 3 if lucky, was every hour last night... hmm
Am going to bed early and sleeping late (film on laptop in bed for toddler blush!) when I can. And it's co-sleeping and feeding lying down here - sometimes if I haven't really sat up at night I feel likeI've had a great sleep grin

Flum Tue 28-Oct-08 15:44:43

6 hours is good. I would try giving a dream feed at 10pm then (with a bit of luck) he might sleep through til 3 or 4am...... You go to bed after the dream feed and you should get 4 or 5 hours straight.

The secret number of hours to get and feel human is a 4 hour stretch.....

stiggywiggywoo Tue 28-Oct-08 20:36:30

Thanks for all your help. I feel a bit guilty that I am complaining after all he is going the six hours.Its just I find if I go to bed when he does at 7pm I can't sleep and if I do I wake up at 1am and my body clock is completely all over the place. I am having to give him a 140ml bottle of expressed milk as well as a breast in order to get him to go the 6 hours which is a pain but I suppose it's worth it.
I forget he is still only wee it's just 11 weeks seems a long time with no sleep. I will try the dream feed and see how I get on. I am typing this while he is asleep upstairs so I suppose I should go and join him and stop moaning.

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