Thanks to everyone who gave me advice yesterday here, it made such a difference. I had many many hours solid skin to skin time with DS, and things have definitely improved. However, the improvements have now led to more questions! Sorry if they?re really silly (and they probably are), I?m just terrified of causing myself more problems without realising.
After all the skin to skin, the situation is now that he is feeding for between 30-90 mins at a time (on one breast, with no signs of distress), at the end of which he falls asleep, more or less on the breast (he might roll off a few second before dropping off). This is then followed by between 1-2.5 hours sleep. When he wakes he is having a nappy change, then going straight back on the breast.
- He's now basically just alternating feeding and sleeping, generally around an hour's feed then 2 hours sleep, but it varies a bit. Should I be making some effort to keep him awake after any feeds, or interrupt them a bit? It just seems insane that at a week old that he's not really having any 'awake' time.
- Some feeds (such as the current one) are lasting up to 2 hours, with no signs of finishing. Seriously? Is this normal?
- As he is basically feeding to sleep (I then move him to basket or cot), am I storing up problems for the future? I know everyone says that you can't spoil them at this stage, but should I be trying to get him to settle himself occasionally?
- He's only feeding from one side per feed. I've been squeezing the nipple after he's been on there for 45 mins, or after an hour, and milk still seems to be coming out, and he still seems happy on there, so I'm wondering if his laziness means it takes a long time to empty the breast? Or should I unlatch him and get him onto the other breast at each feed? Is the fact that I can still express a bit after an hour of suckling indicative of anything at all?