Posting on behalf of my lovely friend again who's having such a rough time with feeding. She's had (?still has) a nasty thrush infection in both breasts and is still in a lot of pain while feeding, plus her nipples are so raw that when she tries to feed her baby she bleeds++, which is really distressing for her.
Can anyone give me any advice as to the best ways she can continue feeding - she is absolutley desperate to continue breast feeding her baby and is starting to despair. I have bfed both my babies but thankfully with relatively no problems so feel a bit useless as to what advice to offer her.
The most difficult thing for her at the moment is that everyone around her (mostly) are just telling her to stop bfing - which she just doesn't want to do. Can you lot offer me (her) any hope that the situation can be truned around - can you have such a dreadful start and still go on to successfully bf for quite sometime? How do you let bleeding raw nipples heal and still maintain your milk supply? She's panicking now that her milk supply is diminishing even though she is trying to either express or latch baby on everyday despite the pain. Is it as simple as this? Can your milk just 'dry up'? I didn't think milk stuff worked that way...?! What is the best approach to healing and maintaining - can any of the bf specialists out there give us some sort of action plan?!
Also is there anything to be gaining by protecting her nips with silicone shields, for example - I know they get a bad press on MN but I just wondered whether this is one occasion where they can be useful...?
She's so down and going slightly mad at the feeling that she's failing her baby. Can anyone offer her any help?! Furthermore does anyone know of a good bf counsellor in the Lowestoft area?!
Thanks guys.
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