To start out, I don't think I want to stop feeding DD to sleep. In general I lean more towards the attachment parenting end of things, and figure if she wakes up and wants/needs milk/comfort/reasurance then who am I to tell her she can't have it. However, there's a couple of things that I'd like to change if I could.
How long should it take for DD to go back to sleep? At the moment I'm looking at 20 minutes as a best case scenario, more liklely 30 and (when it all goes pear shaped) 2 hours. That I find hard to deal with.
During the night she is totally 100% a mummy's girl. If she wakes up and DH goes in the screams increase in pitch and volume until I get there. If I'm not around she'll keep it up for over an hour (when he gives in and puts her in the car - she'll fall asleep until he stops driving...).
I've tried co-sleeping but don't find it works so well (the bed isn't ideal, and I'm too tense to sleep well). I've looked at "The No Cry Sleep Solution" but haven't got too far - she's not a soft toy kind of girl, and if I try and take my nipple away when she's dozy it usually results in screams and a return to full wakefullness.
Looking back at this I'm not entirely sure what I'm asking for, other than maybe to know that I'm not alone. Most of the time I do believe that this is a small amount of time in the grand scheme of things and I am (honest ) fairly happy with the way things are. But at 2 in the morning after sitting up for 90 minutes it can be hard to remember that.
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Feeding 16 mth old to sleep still - need some reasurance...
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Tangle · 07/08/2008 23:06
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