There's a cafe in a town local to us that hubby and I have often used since we moved to our village 18 months ago.
I have been in there 3 times since I had my son, who's a month old. It is a "Christian" cafe and I felt it was a safe place to breastfeed in public. Yesterday, one of the workers told me that she didn't think I should be feeding my son the way I did, because I wasn't discreet enough.
This was despite wearing a mac over a maternity dress with a breastfeeding neckline, feeding my son under the mac with the lapels pulled up and sitting at the back of the cafe with my back to most of the other customers.
This woman told me that she thought I should "put a nappy over the baby's head ( ) so that other people couldn't guess what I was doing" and said that she thought it might be embarrassing for any male customers they might have, if they realised I was breastfeeding.
I found this quite extraordinary and rather embarrassing . I don't really want to go back there again now!
I am wondering what to do next, whether to write to the manager or what, but I wondered if anyone has had any similar experiences and what you think/ would do/ have done.
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chatname · 21/06/2008 17:36
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