I'm going back to work in August, and DS is going to nursery. I hate expressing (bad memories of trying to force myself to produce milk when DS was born), and I just don't even want to think about doing it at work. Since the beginning, DS has had a little bit of formula in his diet - to start with it was a necessity because I wasn't producing enough and he got horribly dehydrated. After I finally started to produce enough, we kept giving one bottle at night because it worked for us, DP enjoyed giving one feed a day, and it helped me feel more secure about things. It seems like a sensible plan to start to give him a second bottle instead of a breast feed at lunch time so that my milk supply can adjust, and I'm not going to work with huge leaking norks.
I've never really enjoyed breast feeding, and now DS (23 weeks) has a tooth and has started biting me and yanking me about, it's even less fun. The thing is, I battled long and hard, pumping day and night to get enough milk to feed my little chap, just through sheer bloody-mindedness and a conviction that it was the best thing for him. Now I'm thinking about stopping BF for the day time, I suddenly feel very guilty, and wonder if I'm actually doing it for selfish reasons. Can someone reassure me that it's a perfectly sensible thing to be doing, or else give me some other sort of advice for heading back to work?
It's all very silly, I've never really been a BF zealot, and I'm surprised at myself for my dithering. Not like me at all.
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Sanguine · 14/05/2008 10:58
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