when i was pregnant with DS i felt very forced into breast feeding by DH, my mum and the MWs. "breast is best" etc etc so when DS was born after a very complicated pregnancy and birth, i found it difficult living up to the expectations of everyone. so when i developed a big infection a week after the birth, it was a relief to change to bottles and get the antibiotics.
this time round, i have just told everyone i'm bottle feeding and there's so much less pressure. now i'm beginning to think i would like to try breast feeding again but am scared that it will be like last time.
basically, DS wasnt and still isnt a good feeder and he was difficult to latch onto the right side. i was told to change sides and that "he would just get used to it" but he fought and my nipples bled. he was then wanting to suck for a couple of minutes at most probably every 35-40mins which i found exhausting. is this normal? is there anything i could do to make #2 latch on and feed better? will my nipples bleed again?
i am reluctant to discuss this with MW's as they are very dogmatic about what's best and will just tell me that if i position the baby right that the baby will latch on fine and thats that.
please help as i dont want to feel that i'm failing (prob too strong a word but the right sentiment) again.
thanks
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BF disaster with DS. please can someone reassure/help me as pregnant with DC #2
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fledtoscotland · 21/04/2008 19:45
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